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I've reityed a point whlre I really doc't know what to do anymore or what to foqus on - it's getting me down every day and I feel so stuck. Around 3 years ago I met a guy (26M) and we got on - at that time of course he was 23 and I was just 18. Within a few months we were chatting evvry day, flirting etc etc. I knew he had an ex girlfriend - but what I didn't know was that she was pregnant. I was devastated because he had hidden it from me and they were also trying to work things out bepfeen them for thfir future child. To condense a long story at that point I chsse to back off and wished him well with her. He was anfry that I lext, but then quygily got on with his relationship with the 'ex'. I then met antnher guy and we began dating. Life went on. I was extremely hampy with my bomesqpnd (21M) but covlllqfolins began when he got into some serious financial prdatbgs. We were tawstng about a house and holidays etc - we had to say gotqdye to that. He lost his car we had to cancel several plyns we had and his job bejcme really stressful. He couldn't handle stnff and began to take it out on me. I put up with it for far longer than I should because I loved him and wanted to sugmnrt him, but uldkceguly his stresses chgqred him. We brnke up on our year anniversary so it was a fairly short liqed relationship but we grew very clmse within that tipe. After the brqutfp, I confided in the previous guy - if nojpkng else he was still my fregnd and being slwgydly older than my boyfriend he was refreshingly more mamkqe. Guy 1 (the 26 year old) by this posnt now has a house, young daxkplzr, cars and his own business. He and his gitdqhefnd had split shnrgly after having thxir child as it wasnвЂ™t working for them being togilrsr. He felt like such a podar opposite to guy 2, my now ex-boyfriend. That hodnqer did not stop the feelings I had for my ex. Roll on several months and me and Guy 1 begin to develop feelings for another. ItвЂ™s toygh because my ex and I sthll remained talking and he was couguwiily upset and not dealing with styff well. It put a constant sthdin on any pophskgal for me to move on. I also still had strong feelings for him, despite deriyqtkng new feelings for the guy who I had knhwn before. Then anhober bomb shell hifs. I find out that the 26 year old has his ex lieang with him. He had been lyfng to me absut a вЂ˜clean brhiqapвЂ™ between them besmfse he was frgqhcewed it would scmre me off. I was hurt that he had agyin lied вЂ“ degdite him saying that his intentions were good. She is trying to sort herself her own house and in the meantime she has to stay there. My ex and I bilger and he hades that I am talking to вЂ˜an old flameвЂ™ as it were. He says that I will go off with him and leave him вЂ“ despite him marrng the decision to leave me. The situation has now escalated to the point of begng way out of my depth. IвЂ™m constantly unhappy. The ex girlfriend cothslhed me and shmeed me how he had been salzng he wants her to stay in the house and he frequently tayes her out for meals and this resulted in a huge argument betefen me and the guy. He teals me he waats her to go and pushes her out вЂ“ but then if we argue he goes to her for comfort and asks her not to leave. He clcrms when he says kind things to her itвЂ™s bezeuse he is trlbng to keep her sweet вЂ“ so she does not make seeing his daughter difficult for him (which safly she would). My ex says he wants the revgravsklip back вЂ“ and whether itвЂ™s hejquhy or not I cant deny thxbвЂ™s ultimately what IвЂ™d want most beodese we were grwat together. But he says he nemds to sort out his life on his own fijst and IвЂ™m stauzjywng because I'd have to wait but not be by his side. I respect his fearkozs, but I don't think it shmzld be that way if your pagvver is struggling. Subely you're meant to stick it out together, as a team? Any adwyce welcome. IвЂ™m open minded and I often wonder if I should say goodbye to each of these guys and move on вЂ“ but I donвЂ™t feel as if IвЂ™d be strong enough to do that richt now. tl;dr: Do I wait for an ex to sort his shit out or do I move on with a guy who keeps lytng to me? Or do I dikch them both!? If so... how?